tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5998353539575924667.post2524110619454105410..comments2023-11-22T02:46:00.426-06:00Comments on our surrogacy adventure: profile writingJaymeehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05386596837111351204noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5998353539575924667.post-78367960302832490712008-07-14T12:32:00.000-05:002008-07-14T12:32:00.000-05:00Ditto on everything Bump Fairy said. The best thin...Ditto on everything Bump Fairy said. The best thing that you can do is just let the words fly and worry about things like grammar, form, and structure later. When I developed my surrogacy profile, at first it took me forever to get started because I was worried about how I would make myself look on paper. How hard it is to verbally summarize yourself! Finally I told myself to "just write" and not worry about appearance. It was so much easier to let go. My natural self came out.JW Moxiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16865232770753428076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5998353539575924667.post-69470444623318028962008-06-26T23:16:00.000-05:002008-06-26T23:16:00.000-05:00OK what I was drawn to: Someone who looked like th...OK what I was drawn to: Someone who looked like they could laugh at themselves. Someone who looked comfortable in their skin. Someone who seemed like a person I could be buddies with. Someone I could confide my constipation to. Someone I could see holding the baby I was carrying. Someone who would let me see it. <BR/>What turned me off: Super clinical answers. Someone who wanted a business relationship. Someone who seemed stiff and unsure/unconfident in themselves and what they wanted. <BR/>What I didn't even consider: How anyone looked, how much anyone made, or where they lived. <BR/><BR/>Good luck to you. Your perfect surrogate is out there waiting for you, just "write her a letter" so she can find you, OK?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com